2015 Ray Whitehouse – “Lose Them Twice” Lose Them Twice Lucy talks with her husband Willis Lamm on the phone after visiting Bonnie. Mary Jo Bullock, one of Bonnie’s daughters, brings balloons into Bonnie’s room at the memory care unit in Wilson, North Carolina. Lucy Lamm, Bonnie’s daughter, spends time with her mother. Lucy sets out a photo of her mother in a reception room before a memorial service at First Presbyterian Church in Wilson, North Carolina. These images are copyright Ray Whitehouse and are use here by permission. They may not be used elsewhere without permission.